Closing the final gap between being almost at something and completely at it. Going the last 10 percent. Could be the end of a big project, getting someone's number, sealing the deal on a date. Anything in which the last step might be the most difficult.
From Will Smith's explanation about first kisses in the movie Hitch.
"So what's happening with you and Wes?" "Nothing much lately, but I think tonight I'm going 10."
"I'm going to ben 10 you" is a commonly used phrase, however its meaning is not what some think. To ben 10 someone means to turn into a monster and brutally ravage their backside(their buttcheeks).
"What did you just say? I'm going to ben 10 you for that"
"Dude did you just ben 10 that girl last night??"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.