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fairydusting 

Akin to "gaslighting" and "bladerunning", "fairydusting" is an another oppressive force that's made to distract and conquer and in this case; gay men. Stems from the story of Peter Pan in which Wendy and her siblings use fairy dust to to loose ground and properly fly into a world of highly offensive stereotypes in which they were oblivious realizing just that.

Basically, it means "the regressive process in which you convince a (white) gay man he's exempt from bigotry (sexism, racism, classism, transphobia, ableism etc.) solely because of his sexual orientation".
-"Why Paul compulsively judges other womens fashion choices, can't take no for an answer and constantly have his vocal blackface on is because fairydusting got into his coming-out process. He's far off the Earth at this point."
fairydusting by Cinamel July 3, 2016
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fairy-dusting

An act of protest in the name of Gay Rights where a hater is showered with glitter. For best effect, rainbow colored glitter is used while loudly announcing “STOP THE HATE.”
Sam: Saw all these Con-serves posting comments about what a criminal Robert Erickson is for fairy-dusting Newt Gingrich and his wife.

Ella: The irony--sprinkling them with glitter on he same day the story broke about Newt Blingrich’s enormous bill at Tiffany's.

Sam: Oh, maybe that’s why Newt was smiling in the photo–he must have thought Erickson was a Tiffany Rep declaring him their millionth customer.
fairy-dusting by thistlebottom June 12, 2011

Fairy Dusting

When you give a man a blow job and instead of swallowing you spit it out in a fine mist all over his face.
I surprised him with a fairy dusting and he never spoke to me again.

Fairy Dusting

When a gay man puts glitter in his butt crack then farts said glitter on someone or all over the place.
Rodney is fairy dusting Rob. It looks like Rob just got into a fight with a stripper.
Fairy Dusting by Jade prince February 10, 2020

Fairy-dusting

The act of one person doing a butt naked hand stand while another person blows a plug of cocaine in to the asshole of the naked hand-standee.
Lets check the Quality by doing a good fairy-dusting!
Fairy-dusting by QCHR May 12, 2022

Fairy dusting

When a twink farts in your mouth. Sometimes for sexual gratification sometimes for fun.
Guy 1: How did your date go with the guy you met up with on Grindr?
Guy 2: Well bitch… He was in the fairy dusting.
Fairy dusting by Sman June 23, 2025