Definitions by lovehascalledameeting

good girlism 

noun: an action that represents a woman falling into people-pleasing patterns, the conditioned practice of being an obedient female.

Having a boundary crossed is a real test for a recovering people-pleaser, she might collapse into good girlism.

good girlism by lovehascalledameeting June 7, 2022

labiatory 

The labiatory is an explorative space where a variety of touch and stroking is used to test for sensation and pleasure in a woman's outer genitalia.

We spent an hour in the labiatory and discovered her touch preferences.

labiatory by lovehascalledameeting May 31, 2021

rosaphile 

noun - a lover of roses

She's obsessed with colored petals, thorns and blossoms, she's a rosaphile.

rosaphile by lovehascalledameeting April 21, 2020

snoraphobia 

The fear of snoring.

My snoraphobia kicks in when I'm on a long flight and know I'll fall asleep.

snoraphobia by lovehascalledameeting May 27, 2016

pain portal 

noun

The gateway one passes through when suffering heartbreak or emotional despair that spontaneously emerges into radical self-love and acceptance of all that is.

After going through the pain portal, I feel freedom in my discomfort rather than a desire to avoid it.

pain portal by lovehascalledameeting May 17, 2016

miserious 

adjective
1. wretchedly painful to feel, experience, or embody.

"her heart broke in the most miserious way"

2. (of a person) deliberately causing distress or suffering.
"the evil king was miserious to his people"

My invitation to life is to enter me fully, this requires that I allow even the miserious to flow through me.

miserious by lovehascalledameeting May 15, 2016