Definitions by Sneeper
social top
That friend who always organizes social gatherings - they pick the restaurant, get a headcount, pick a time, make reservations, etc. "Top" here is a reference to the dominant role during sex, especially in the gay community. A social top is dominant in a social context.
I'm glad you are back from vacation - without our social top, we just sat around at home and wondered what everyone was up to.
social top by sneeper October 4, 2013
social bottom
Someone who never organizes social gatherings, but instead waits for someone else to organize. "Bottom" here is a reference to the submissive role during sex, especially in the gay community. A social bottom is submissive in a social context.
Have anyone chosen a restaurant? Nobody? Do I have to do it again? Ugh. I'm surrounded by social bottoms.
social bottom by sneeper October 3, 2013