Seenic Silence

The quiet, heavy pause after someone has read your message—but chooses not to reply.
It’s not just being left on "seen"—it’s the emotional weight that follows.
A silence that feels deliberate. Scenic. Ironic. Seenic.
You read it. I know you read it.
But your reply? It lives in seenic silence.
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Softshut

To gently close off a connection, conversation, or relationship without confrontation, explanation, or drama.
There’s no goodbye, just a quiet fading—a polite emotional retreat.

Often used when someone slowly stops replying or making an effort, without officially ending things.
I softshut that friendship last year. It wasn’t working, and I didn’t want a scene.
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Ghostback

To reappear in someone's messages or life after ghosting them—acting like nothing ever happened. Usually done without apology, explanation, or shame.

A ghostbacker disappears like a ghost… and returns like a notification.
Don’t ghostback me now just because you’re bored.
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Replynesia

The unintentional act of forgetting to reply to a message—not because you don’t care, but because you overthought your response so much that you postponed it… and then forgot entirely.

It’s not ghosting. It’s guilt mixed with good intentions that got lost in the tabs of your brain.
I opened your message, mentally replied three times… then remembered five days later. Total replynesia.
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Feelter

The quiet, internal filter that softens your true emotions before you express them, usually out of fear of being too intense, too real, or too honest.

People with feelter often water down their words to avoid seeming dramatic or emotionally overwhelming. It’s the inner voice that says, “Don’t say that. It’s too much.”
I wanted to tell her how much I missed her… but feelter kicked in.
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Ghostdraft

A message you wrote from the heart but never sent. It lives in your drafts folder—unsent, unresolved, and quietly haunting.

Not quite deleted, not quite delivered. Just… ghosted by you.
That message has been sitting in my notes for 3 months. It’s a ghostdraft now.
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Delete Syndrome

A psychological tendency to impulsively delete messages, posts, or creative work shortly after writing or sharing them, usually driven by overthinking, anxiety, or fear of being judged.

People experiencing Delete Syndrome often second-guess their own voice, fearing their words are “too much” or “not enough,” even when they come from the heart.
I had something to say, but... Delete Syndrome won again.
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