Notyourdoormat's definitions
An abusive male behind closed doors (typically a former incel) who overcompensates by acting winsome or pseudo intellectual in public.
Karen: Aw, isn't Steve adorkable?
Me: That softboi has wokefished you too? He sent dick pics to my grandmother last week!
Me: That softboi has wokefished you too? He sent dick pics to my grandmother last week!
by Notyourdoormat February 1, 2022
Get the Softboimug. Any woman who won't smile sweetly at a man who swans off lumbering her with all the responsibilities.
Eg: "She asked you to pay child support and take an interest in your kids?? Wow, what a bunny boiler!"
by Notyourdoormat August 24, 2020
Get the Bunny Boilermug.