Any area of a (usually) large metropolis where gay people live, work and hang out. Often the neighborhood contains several gay bars, gay bookstores, and other "gay friendly" business establishments.
Some rather famous Gay Ghettos include the Castro district of San Francisco, Greenwich Village and Chelsea in NYC and Dupont Circle in Washington, DC.
The gay neighbors who live in the apartment, townhouse, brownstone, building, swiss chalet or English castle next to yours.
Russell and Cody are my next-door-gaybors.
Ennis and Jack never got the chance to be gaybors.