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1.
Arousing or capable of arousing sympathetic sadness and compassion.
Arousing or capable of arousing scornful pity. Inspires Pity, scornful pity

Also known as Pathetic.
"their efforts were pathetic, what a pitiable lack of character. Extremelly Rahauser exhibition of cowardice"
by Jesus the savior July 25, 2005