A cute nickname to call your partner. Means ”kiss-cucumber” in swedish and is a very popular word to use instead of baby or honey. Fits perfectly for a partner who loves to kiss a lot (and also looks like a cucumber).
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.