For example:
man 1 can work hard all his life and make millions and literally be not
giving a fuck about what has happened in his life
AND
man 2 can be homeless and mope and be sad about his position in life, therefore he fails in not
giving a fuck and in this senario he is the "loser"
As opposed to the common
misconception that man 2 gives less of a fuck because he hasn't worked a day in his life.