Da eyerolling-disgust-inducing difference between
da level/type of anger dat you expected a particular situation to produce, and what temperish results --- or absence thereof, if you're
lucky --- actually occurred.
A classic case of ireny would be in "To Kill A Mockingbird", where
da scared-and-hungry Dill went to all
da agonized/trepidatious effort to secretly enter
da Finch's house and hide under Scout's bed for an extended
period while tummy-rumblingly listening to Scout's family happily partaking of their supper, only to then have "big and scary" Atticus not even look mildly upset when Dill finally showed himself, and then be generously plied with leftovers, given a hot bath, and finally be permitted to happily climb in beside his
dream-girl (Scout herself) in her bed for some blessed sleep.