a struggle cuddle is a episode that takes place during sleep where one partner wakes up and realises the other person is not directly touching them. The struggle begins to pull the partners into their arms and invariable involves the partner being pulled waking up momentarily as they are dragged across the bed in an affectionate manner.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.