A usually legitimate grievance against a particular person. The offending person either is unaware of the grievance or has been studiously avoiding acknowledging it - usually the latter - and will probably never acknowledge that this is a real, legitimate complaint.
I've got a bone to pick with you. You really violated my personal boundaries yesterday, and that wasn'tcool.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)