Typically a shy person at first but he can open up if you get to know his group of friends. He catches your eye at first glance and he is tall and well built. He can be an asshole at times if he doesn't like you, but has a real personality. He doesn't normally stand out from the crowd, but if you take a chance to get to know him, it can follow to a great relationship. Agreed, he can be an asshole even to his best friends, but you'll never find someone like him.
The common practise of identifying a problem without even attempting to suggest a solution.
This can range from tangible problems (e.g. a broken cupboard door that is simply flagged to housemates via WhatsApp) to more intangible problems (e.g. a therapist merely pointing out toxic behaviours without offering suggestions for how to change those behaviours and/or what aspirational healthy behaviours could look like).
Those that practice this often feel that through identifying a problem they have done their bit or done enough. In reality, without the follow-through, the problem remains but we just see it more clearly.
The difference between The Great Hack and The Social Dilemma is that the latter actually offered a solution - the former was just one great big exercise in alertism.