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Quoiromantic 

Pronounced kwa-romantic, (also called “wtfromantic” or “whatromantic”), this term can be used to describe anyone who has a lot of struggle with the concept of romantic attraction. The term is intentionally vague and covers a large variety of experiences such as:
- Not being able to understand the concept of romantic attraction
- Having difficulty distinguishing between romantic attraction and another form of attraction (aesthetic, sensual, or platonic)
- Finding the concept of romantic attraction to be inapplicable, inaccessible, or nonsensical
- Questioning your romantic orientation for so long that questioning itself forms a part of your identity
- Not feeling any other label is useful for you
Along with many others

People who identify as quoiromantic may identify as arospec (within the aromantic spectrum) or not, it doesn’t matter. This orientation is grounded in confusion around romantic attraction in general, and anyone can identify with this label.

(Some of this information was paraphrased from the aromantics wiki’s quoiromantic page)
Some examples of people who may identify as quoiromantic:

“I always have a really hard time distinguishing a difference between romantic and platonic attraction, so I identify as quoiromantic.”

“I’m pretty sure I experience romantic attraction, but as there’s nothing I consider to be romantic (it’s all either platonic or aesthetic or something else), I am quoiromantic.”

“I’ve never really understood romantic attraction as a concept, no matter how much people try to explain it to me. Because of this, I identify as quoiromantic.”

“I’ve spent so much time wondering if I feel romantic attraction or not that it’s kind of just become part of me, so I say I’m quoiromantic.”

“I identify as quoiromantic simply because I don’t really feel like any other label fits me well.”
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Quoiromantic 

A romantic orientation in which one is unable to differentiate platonic and romantic love.

It is also used as a catch-all term for people on the aromantic spectrum who don't fit any other label.
Also called wtfromantic. The prefix, quoi, was taken from the French word for what.
I can't tell if i have a crush on them or if I like being only friends because I'm quoiromantic.
Quoiromantic by Olloing June 17, 2015
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Quoiromantic 

Quoiromantic is when one cannot always distinguish romantic attraction from another type of attraction. It can also be when one cannot tell if something is romantic attraction or not.
There's this girl in my school.

I'm quoiromantic because I can't tell if I like her romantically or not.
Quoiromantic by AmeryWest(:P) September 1, 2021

Quoiromantic 

Quoiromantic/quoisexual is where an individual can't tell the difference between a sexual/romantic relationship and a platonic one, meaning they never really know when they're in love (I'm no expert but that's how people describe it to me)
Guy: "Timmy is quoiromantic"
Other guy: "ok."
👶🤪🥺🤷 ♀️😜🤭😿👩 🦲🤏😎😭😇🐑
Quoiromantic by f.i.n.n July 21, 2022

Quaromantic 

Quaromantic is an aromantic identity that describes when one feels strong alterous and/or exteramo attraction in place or role of where romantic attraction would or should have been.
I feel that quaromantic describes me very accurately.
Quaromantic by MothmanIsAMood December 30, 2022

bang a you-ee 

of Massachusetts orig. "to make a u-turn"
hey, we missed the bar, bang a you-ee
Word of the Day on July 19, 2026
The word 'flag' as pronounced by people with thick Belfast accents. The term is a perfect encapsulation of the disproportionate and overblown reaction to the removal of the Union Jack (as in 'de fleg') from above City Hall in Belfast. Where previously it had flown for 365 days per year, it is now flown on 17 designated days of the year - in line with many other British cities.

The event caused a portion of the Protestant community ('fleggers') to make international pricks of themselves as they proceeded to wreck the fucking place, claiming it was another erosion of a 'British' identity they perceive to have been under attack since the horrifying spectre of equality reared its head in Northern Ireland.

The word 'fleg' - and indeed 'fleggers' - fittingly describes a section of humanity unconcerned with knowledge, reality or the vagaries of the English language. Like America's tea-baggers they are ruled by instinct, fear and paranoia with a side dish of rampant bigotry and startling ignorance of the world around them.
"Wat de fuck like! The taigs got de fleg took down! Let's wreck de fuckin place! No surrender!"

"De fleg has been took down! Before ye know it there'll be a united Ireland! Attack Short Strand! God Save The Queen!"
Fleg by OnionFleg August 9, 2013
Word of the Day on July 18, 2026