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Sitting with a girl for more than 4 hours attempting to seduce her only to find she has a boyfriend.
'Oh man, I thought this girl was really into me but it turns out i was just pulling a Ben'
by Big Chief,Tony,Bosh,Ali,G January 13, 2013
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Girlfriend: "Sorry, I gotta get off the phone or my brother's gonna kill me.
In Boyfriend's mind: "I should call the police!"


Boyfriend's Buddy: "You shouldn't of called the cops, man! You were really pulling a Ben there."
by BanditoSlim October 08, 2011
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To hide the true identity of your same sex partner, by giving them a name of the opposite sex as a cover up, which sounds similar or begins with the same letter.
To be pulling a Ben, is to use another name for your partner. Example; to use Ben instead of Karen, or Jessica, instead of James.
by deepsecrets June 21, 2010
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To pull a Ben is to do something which is very headass or to be a headass
*Group chat decides to buy concert tickets together at a Chicago location*

One person in the group buys tickets for themselves and one other person for the Atlanta location instead

Another person in the group chat might say, "Wow they're really pulling a Ben right now"
by echopear May 09, 2018
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To “pull a Ben”, is to love (become obsessed with) someone for four years, that you’ve never physically met, and then complain about how it’s hurting you, when you refuse to move on.
Nani: I’ll love you for four years and never let you go, lol
Sunny: you’re totally pulling a Ben

Nani: *commits die*
by ItsLevio_SUH August 28, 2019
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