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Findomme 

(fin dom) noun.

A FinDomme is a Woman who practices Financial Domination.

Not to be confused with a sex-worker, this Person receives cash from a money slave because they both enjoy the fetish Financial Domination .

The two may never meet in real life.

History:
The word came from the submissives who served the original Financial Dominatrices in the 1990's in the yahoo chat rooms, as a shorter way to type the words Financial Dominatrix . Domme and Domina are short forms of the word Dominatrix.
MissTriss was the FIRST Black FinDomme who coined the term wallet rapist in the 90's.
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Findomme 

A confident and dominant women who controls men by allowing them to spoil and make tributes for their dommes attention or for her pleasure. The men takes pleasure in getting attenrion from those who they worship and admire.
"Adorafetminnie is an example of a gorgeous and powerful findomme who will drain everything you got.
Findomme by Asianfindomme May 13, 2018
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A female dominate who emphasizes pleasure and enjoyment over pain and humiliation.
She said her name was Lucy and that she was a Fundomme; then she dressed me like a barbie and ravaged my ass with a rainbow strapon.
fundomme by LucyHyde January 3, 2018
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