Meaning "get me a cup of tea" and rendering the the normal use of the English language for this request useless, thus saving valuable time in which one can enjoy said cup of tea.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.