A girl who acts different around boys than they do girls, and they have a lot of "guy friends" and act like girls are always trying "too hard" for guys/school and you typically find these girls in grade/middle/high school. They say "quirky" when describing themselves.
"Omg! I am so short! I'm only 5,4! don't laugh at meee!""Um.. i dont wear that much makeup! haha i only wear chapstick and mascara i am just not like the other girls hah..." pick me girl
by randomuser231 December 3, 2021
pick me girls, the ones that think every guy is obsessed with them and think they care about her feelings, say will say the stupidest things and act “corky” for any guy to like them.
a pick me girl would say “omg i’m so tiny compared to you” or “omg face time my tonight i know you miss me”
by $wagM0ney6996 June 25, 2021
A girl who goes out of their way to do things for the attention of guys.
The two extremes would be the whole “uwu cutesy girl who can’t do anything on her own and needs a man to save her.” and the “not-like-other-girls girl who acts like a cunt to other women to try and get validation from misogynistic guys.”
Pick me girls are only liked by a select group of people. Nobody likes them. It’s pretty clear that they are putting up an act for attention because any girl who actually for example plays video games or likes the colour pink doesn’t act like this.
(e.g. girls who claim that they are gamers despite having never picked up a controller other than a Wii remote. Usually found on TikTok. See gamer girl fraud)
The two extremes would be the whole “uwu cutesy girl who can’t do anything on her own and needs a man to save her.” and the “not-like-other-girls girl who acts like a cunt to other women to try and get validation from misogynistic guys.”
Pick me girls are only liked by a select group of people. Nobody likes them. It’s pretty clear that they are putting up an act for attention because any girl who actually for example plays video games or likes the colour pink doesn’t act like this.
(e.g. girls who claim that they are gamers despite having never picked up a controller other than a Wii remote. Usually found on TikTok. See gamer girl fraud)
“Jessica is calling herself a bruh girl and cancelled on our plans because she said she’s “hanging with the boys””
“Don’t mind her, shes just a pick me girl.”
“Don’t mind her, shes just a pick me girl.”
by Egg-mon December 27, 2021
A shitty insult used by jealous bitchy women or ugly femcels on Twitter as a cope for why no man wants to fuck them. They call attractive, cute, and popular girls "pick-me girls" just because lots of guys like them and insist that they're "seeking validation" from guys. In reality, those who use it are bitter and jealous cunts who are mad that they're unfuckable due to their shitty attitude and/or ugly looks.
Femcel: "Fuck Shoe0nHead and her stupid Male Loneliness video! She's such a pick-me girl!"
Guy: "Fuck off, cunt."
Guy: "Fuck off, cunt."
by Waterbreath September 29, 2023
A girl exhibiting desperate, attention-seeking behavior, usually arising out of social insecurity. She seeks a stable identity in a social group by mirroring the behavior of the males at the top of a dominance hierachy. Sorority pick-me girls will wear their caps backwards and shotgun beers to fit in with the alpha frat guys. Alt pick-me girls will adopt alt fashion styles or hobbies such as gaming or skating to fit in with the alt sigma types.
Unbeknownst to pick-me girls, social acceptance is the result of someone authentically expressing admired qualities, rather than consciously manipulative social signalling. Because a pick-me girl draws a surface-level conclusion about what garners attention and then fabricates an entire personality around this observation, she slowly becomes a vapid human being.
Most pick-me girls in modern society successfully receive validation from simp males who don't understand female behavior. Normal girls hate to see this. On the other hand, there is hope for a pick-me girl. If pick-me girls are genuinely open to mastering a hobby or interest, they become real social contributors. The safe space created by shared genuine interest can cure the pick-me girl of her social insecurities, thus letting go of the need for male validation in the first place. Normal girls ESPECIALLY hate it when a pick-me girl successfully becomes interesting and truly respected by the male dominance hierarchy - they never let it go that she started as a pick-me girl.
Unbeknownst to pick-me girls, social acceptance is the result of someone authentically expressing admired qualities, rather than consciously manipulative social signalling. Because a pick-me girl draws a surface-level conclusion about what garners attention and then fabricates an entire personality around this observation, she slowly becomes a vapid human being.
Most pick-me girls in modern society successfully receive validation from simp males who don't understand female behavior. Normal girls hate to see this. On the other hand, there is hope for a pick-me girl. If pick-me girls are genuinely open to mastering a hobby or interest, they become real social contributors. The safe space created by shared genuine interest can cure the pick-me girl of her social insecurities, thus letting go of the need for male validation in the first place. Normal girls ESPECIALLY hate it when a pick-me girl successfully becomes interesting and truly respected by the male dominance hierarchy - they never let it go that she started as a pick-me girl.
Mason: Yo, Amy is such a pick-me girl. Idk if she can hang, bruh.
Doug: Nah, dawg. Amy is actually really cool. She did a nosegrind last week - she can actually skate better than most of the crew. Yeah, she started off being a lil much, but I actually respect her hustle now.
David: Yeah, Amy's dope. Also she has one hell of a rack.
Amy: Fuck off, David. I'm standing right here.
Doug: Nah, dawg. Amy is actually really cool. She did a nosegrind last week - she can actually skate better than most of the crew. Yeah, she started off being a lil much, but I actually respect her hustle now.
David: Yeah, Amy's dope. Also she has one hell of a rack.
Amy: Fuck off, David. I'm standing right here.
by socialsavv December 23, 2022