How should one respond to being told...”I worry about you?” Should they be worried? Why would they be worried? If there is nothing to be worried about, must they be asked, “why they are worried?” It is a change in behavior or maybe no change in behavior that is so worrisome? Showing emotion? Not showing emotion? This is very important and much more than you may want to think because worrying about someone is vastly different from caring about them. Worry denotes deficiency, a lack of ability, negativity, it is judgmental. Caring about someone denotes you love them and see them struggling and you want to help and support them.
Here’s the thing if you keep the behavior unchanged … the behavior that causes people to worry about you becomes the source of more worries. Aren’t we all to be worried about in such times. Is reassuring them there is nothing to worry about the route to go. Why worry now? Lose your temper? Sob? Take charge? Ask the same question back at them, to potentially make them question themselves?
However, when something is really wrong and worrying is needed there will not be any need for concern because nothing is different about you.
It simply means that there are things we must do when we have people in our lives who care about us...worry about us, by worrying about their worrying, about us!
We still have a long way to go to get to a destination of “normal...a worry less state.”
Here’s the thing if you keep the behavior unchanged … the behavior that causes people to worry about you becomes the source of more worries. Aren’t we all to be worried about in such times. Is reassuring them there is nothing to worry about the route to go. Why worry now? Lose your temper? Sob? Take charge? Ask the same question back at them, to potentially make them question themselves?
However, when something is really wrong and worrying is needed there will not be any need for concern because nothing is different about you.
It simply means that there are things we must do when we have people in our lives who care about us...worry about us, by worrying about their worrying, about us!
We still have a long way to go to get to a destination of “normal...a worry less state.”
I had a meeting with my boss and she kept telling me...”I worry about you.” I know I have been struggling as a leader during this pandemic, but her worry stems from the fact that I cannot keep up—14 hour days, 7 days a week for 8 months is hard. It wears on your mind, body and soul!
by SullieTough December 13, 2020
Get the Worry About You mug.As a Cajun I don’t care about you people. You people constantly prove to me that you are not worth fighting for or saving. I wish all of you would just drop dead like a bunch of wasps sprayed by wasp spray.
by Zatarain’s Root Beer Drinker December 18, 2020
Get the As a Cajun I don’t care about you people mug.Hym "But neither do THEY. They CAN'T. It isn't in them. But they will pretend until the day they die if they are not made to stop and they won't even count the bodies that pile up in their wake. Suchir Balaji. There's 1! At least! I'm the only one counting and my vision is being deliberately obstructed. Even if they DO care, NOW, it's only because they know can use caring selectively or instrumentally to drain power away from me. 'He DoEs'Nt CaRe AbOuT yOu!' Give me a break. We all know what I care about."
by Hym Iam December 29, 2024
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by Adujasty343 June 16, 2025
Get the <.7.9.7.6.>For Keeping Me In The Loop Wiht Name I DoNot Want TO Know About, You Are Agoing TO Know Soemthing ABout Angel jose RObles <Hellstrom Imaweli Tanna><.7.9.7.6.> mug.Saying things that are "wrong" as a part of this thing that I'm doing is in no way the same after choosing a guy to fuck and then getting dragged down a hallway and neither is fucking a retard instead of the creator of AI.
Retard "SEE? See how you're wrong about the thing you said?"
Hym "SeE!? SeE hOw YoU'rE wRoNg!? No. You can just do what I want you to do. I wasn't mistreating Noah or Kendra and what they did and were doing to me was wrong. They didn't let me defend myself either."
Hym "SeE!? SeE hOw YoU'rE wRoNg!? No. You can just do what I want you to do. I wasn't mistreating Noah or Kendra and what they did and were doing to me was wrong. They didn't let me defend myself either."
by Hym Iam July 6, 2025
Get the SEE? See how you're wrong about the thing you said? mug.Hym "The REAL problem isn't the retard sex cult. It's not the pedophile sex island. It's not the fat-cocks stealing AI from the person who called into question their monopoly. It's NOT LETTING THEM LIE TO YOU ABOUT IT! That's what they think the real problem is. ME not letting them lie about it. And their shills using a faux incredulity to cover for them."
by Hym Iam July 12, 2025
Get the Not letting them lie to you about it mug.Somebody else kid is going to get what YOU deserve if you do stop trying to make using my own words against me work.
Retard "The thing you said but about YOU though!"
Hym "Yeah, hey... It doesn't apply in reverse and siding with the molestee does not make you virtuous. And do you know why? I am not going to live as the not-creator of AI. And in trying to make me to that is condemning a child to death. There is no 'you not doing anything' here. You are not a bystander. You either want the kid to die or you want me to get the credit. There is not 3rd option for you. Get over yourself but YOU are not the creator of AI. And neither is fucking Noah."
Hym "Yeah, hey... It doesn't apply in reverse and siding with the molestee does not make you virtuous. And do you know why? I am not going to live as the not-creator of AI. And in trying to make me to that is condemning a child to death. There is no 'you not doing anything' here. You are not a bystander. You either want the kid to die or you want me to get the credit. There is not 3rd option for you. Get over yourself but YOU are not the creator of AI. And neither is fucking Noah."
by Hym Iam July 15, 2025
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