A date shanghai is when a person unwittingly goes on a date...whether the person wants to date the other person or not.
'To shanghai' is a term derived from the 1850s when sailing crews were abducted. It is a verb that has expanded to mean to kidnap.
A date shanghai is essentially a surprise (unwanted) date.
'To shanghai' is a term derived from the 1850s when sailing crews were abducted. It is a verb that has expanded to mean to kidnap.
A date shanghai is essentially a surprise (unwanted) date.
"On my last night in town he date shanghaied me! I first realized it was a date, not after the movie in his room or the whiskey shots, but when we were walking to a jazz club. When I invited some people to join us, his face fell a bit. (they didn't join us, so we spent the evening together).
by GarageSaleFTW July 4, 2010

Yea bro her and her mom picked me up and we went out to see a show. It was a total Janine date but I didn't have to spend anything so it's all good.
by Chuckbad April 19, 2017

by healthbledger November 21, 2011

When you date a semi-beautiful person, which causes a slightly more semi-beautiful person to take interest in wanting to date you, until you are a sweet 6 with a perfect 10, and make people ask how you landed him/her.
She could be a good date ladder for you and get that other girl to ask herself what is she missing by not dating you.
by WordsofWisdomFrom December 8, 2021

When your friend calls and plays secretly with a girl he met online in a game but refuses to admit they are dating/want to date them.
by sebik604 August 15, 2023

(guy 1) - How did the date go?
(guy 2) - Oh it ended up being a dry date.
(guy 1) - Ahh, shitty deal.
(guy 2) - Oh it ended up being a dry date.
(guy 1) - Ahh, shitty deal.
by Shannon_Cannon March 29, 2010

Date or mate is a Instagram story disease that is widely spread throughout 11 to 14 year old desparates.
by mate your small October 21, 2019
