Pick-Me

A girl who pretends to be somebody she's not solely to gain attention from other people, usually guys.

Jenna is such a pick-me girl, she's always trying to be different.
(Jenna was just a random name, I'm not referring to anybody.)

by bigloafofbread December 12, 2025

Pick-me

A person that acts a certain way to try and get approval from specific groups; usually “niche”.

Person 1: “Oh man, do you know TX2?”
Person 2: “Yeah, but I dont listen to him. Hes such a pick-me.”
Person 1: “He totally is.”

by wombat_feeder January 3, 2026

Pick-me girl

Terminal cancer.
Wants all the boys, even the gay ones (me)
All of her relationships (likely senior freshman) looks creepy

Pick-me girl; HES MINE! YOU CANT TALK TO YOUR “friend” BECAUSE PEOPLE WILL THINK IM WITH YOU GUYS AND ITLL RUIN MY REPUTATION
Gay primary subject that said pick-me girl is simping over; We’re a gay polyamorous relationship of 22 men.
Pick-me girl; DONT LIE MY POOKIE BEAR!
Gay secondary subject, said “friend” of gay primary subject; I have never seen you in my life!
Pick-me girl; *continues to say multiple slurs*
Gay tertiary subject, unimportant to current situation; Twenty-twosom-

by fortcraft moment January 30, 2025

Pick me girl

A femcel term meaning a normal, rational and usually attractive woman, who is not a salty generalising misandrist.

It is a coping term that femcels love using because nobody wants to date them for their horrible behavior (i.e., Nobody picks them.)

Femcel: All men are bad, and I hate all men because none of them want to date me.
Pick me girl: That's not a nice thing to say, stop generalising all men.
Femcel: OMG you are putting women down, you are such a pick-me girl!!!

by Washington's Spoon February 6, 2025

pick me bitch

a girl or a guy (but stereotypically a girl) who literally begs for attention and brings other people down just so she can feel better about herself. constantly insults and complains/backstabs other people because she “felt hurt”, extreme crybaby especially to males. says things about other girls appearances or maintenance like “oh i could never wear makeup im naturally pretty”

pick me bitch: “i’m one of the boys girls are too much drama and i would never wear makeup im SOOOO naturally pretty”

normal girl: “shut the fuck up you literally are moto moto and you create half the drama in our school. besides, not even the boys like you”

by anti misogynist February 14, 2025

Pick-me girl

"Pick-me girl" is a term used by jealous femcels to insult a popular, feminine girl who is aware that the modern, strong, independent feminist mindset only drives men away from those types of women—the same ones who insult her with that term. So, they resorted to inventing it as an 'insult' because she chose not to subscribe to their 'I don't need no man/I'm a strong independent woman' femcel trash mentality.

A pathetic femcel might say something like: "She thinks acting all sweet and submissive will get her attention from the guys, but it just makes her look like a pick-me girl. So pathetic."

by The only king is God February 16, 2025

Pick Me Girl

A girl who puts down other girls for male attention.

Melike is a pick me girl. She spreads rumors about others to get attention from 4’9 boys.

by ecrinsu March 7, 2025