Has now become an insult that catty girls (who are also unpopular and don’t have friends of several genders) use to tear other girls down for having male friends or enjoying non-traditionally feminine activities. This term intended originally to call out anti-feminine sexism has become sexist itself and ironically proves that the pick-me girl is in fact different from catty drama queens.
The quiet girls were jealous of the girl who had boys and girls as friends and decided to ostracize her and validate their sexism by calling her a pick-me girl.
by Utahpowermom November 7, 2022
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The two extremes would be the whole “uwu cutesy girl who can’t do anything on her own and needs a man to save her.” and the “not-like-other-girls girl who acts like a cunt to other women to try and get validation from misogynistic guys.”
Pick me girls are only liked by a select group of people. Nobody likes them. It’s pretty clear that they are putting up an act for attention because any girl who actually for example plays video games or likes the colour pink doesn’t act like this.
(e.g. girls who claim that they are gamers despite having never picked up a controller other than a Wii remote. Usually found on TikTok. See gamer girl fraud)
The two extremes would be the whole “uwu cutesy girl who can’t do anything on her own and needs a man to save her.” and the “not-like-other-girls girl who acts like a cunt to other women to try and get validation from misogynistic guys.”
Pick me girls are only liked by a select group of people. Nobody likes them. It’s pretty clear that they are putting up an act for attention because any girl who actually for example plays video games or likes the colour pink doesn’t act like this.
(e.g. girls who claim that they are gamers despite having never picked up a controller other than a Wii remote. Usually found on TikTok. See gamer girl fraud)
“Jessica is calling herself a bruh girl and cancelled on our plans because she said she’s “hanging with the boys””
“Don’t mind her, shes just a pick me girl.”
“Don’t mind her, shes just a pick me girl.”
by Egg-mon December 27, 2020
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Femcel: "Fuck Shoe0nHead and her stupid Male Loneliness video! She's such a pick-me girl!"
Guy: "Fuck off, cunt."
Guy: "Fuck off, cunt."
by wtrbrth September 28, 2023
Get the Pick-me girl mug.A girl exhibiting desperate, attention-seeking behavior, usually arising out of social insecurity. She seeks a stable identity in a social group by mirroring the behavior of the males at the top of a dominance hierachy. Sorority pick-me girls will wear their caps backwards and shotgun beers to fit in with the alpha frat guys. Alt pick-me girls will adopt alt fashion styles or hobbies such as gaming or skating to fit in with the alt sigma types.
Unbeknownst to pick-me girls, social acceptance is the result of someone authentically expressing admired qualities, rather than consciously manipulative social signalling. Because a pick-me girl draws a surface-level conclusion about what garners attention and then fabricates an entire personality around this observation, she slowly becomes a vapid human being.
Most pick-me girls in modern society successfully receive validation from simp males who don't understand female behavior. Normal girls hate to see this. On the other hand, there is hope for a pick-me girl. If pick-me girls are genuinely open to mastering a hobby or interest, they become real social contributors. The safe space created by shared genuine interest can cure the pick-me girl of her social insecurities, thus letting go of the need for male validation in the first place. Normal girls ESPECIALLY hate it when a pick-me girl successfully becomes interesting and truly respected by the male dominance hierarchy - they never let it go that she started as a pick-me girl.
Unbeknownst to pick-me girls, social acceptance is the result of someone authentically expressing admired qualities, rather than consciously manipulative social signalling. Because a pick-me girl draws a surface-level conclusion about what garners attention and then fabricates an entire personality around this observation, she slowly becomes a vapid human being.
Most pick-me girls in modern society successfully receive validation from simp males who don't understand female behavior. Normal girls hate to see this. On the other hand, there is hope for a pick-me girl. If pick-me girls are genuinely open to mastering a hobby or interest, they become real social contributors. The safe space created by shared genuine interest can cure the pick-me girl of her social insecurities, thus letting go of the need for male validation in the first place. Normal girls ESPECIALLY hate it when a pick-me girl successfully becomes interesting and truly respected by the male dominance hierarchy - they never let it go that she started as a pick-me girl.
Mason: Yo, Amy is such a pick-me girl. Idk if she can hang, bruh.
Doug: Nah, dawg. Amy is actually really cool. She did a nosegrind last week - she can actually skate better than most of the crew. Yeah, she started off being a lil much, but I actually respect her hustle now.
David: Yeah, Amy's dope. Also she has one hell of a rack.
Amy: Fuck off, David. I'm standing right here.
Doug: Nah, dawg. Amy is actually really cool. She did a nosegrind last week - she can actually skate better than most of the crew. Yeah, she started off being a lil much, but I actually respect her hustle now.
David: Yeah, Amy's dope. Also she has one hell of a rack.
Amy: Fuck off, David. I'm standing right here.
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Get the Pick me girl mug.A pick me girl is an adjective to an attractive girl, used by feminist girls. A pick me girl adjective is used when a girl sees another girl that has hobbies which boys find attractive, and tries to give an excuse why she (the user of the adjective) doesn't like these hobbies, thus less attractive.
This term explains that the attractive girl fakes her hobbies, for making boys to like her, and explains her desire to be liked by boys is driven by patriachy that is rooted in her world view.
When used, it is usually comes with demonisation of the pick me girl. The girl is shown as a misogynist, supercilious, and extremely desperate to boys attention.
This term explains that the attractive girl fakes her hobbies, for making boys to like her, and explains her desire to be liked by boys is driven by patriachy that is rooted in her world view.
When used, it is usually comes with demonisation of the pick me girl. The girl is shown as a misogynist, supercilious, and extremely desperate to boys attention.
Example 1:
A feminist girl that think girls can be whatever they want, and do whatever they want, especially sports, would say: "She is such a pick me girl, she says she likes soccer just because she wants boys to like her".
Examle 2:
A friend of a pick me girl would say: "Oh my gosh. I can't believe she is a pick me girl. We must cure her".
A feminist girl that think girls can be whatever they want, and do whatever they want, especially sports, would say: "She is such a pick me girl, she says she likes soccer just because she wants boys to like her".
Examle 2:
A friend of a pick me girl would say: "Oh my gosh. I can't believe she is a pick me girl. We must cure her".
by AnonymousBeaver2023 June 12, 2022
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