This is when a person tells you what qualities you have,
personality traits, etc. It can also be applied when someone's talking to someone else. It's even more harmful if the
thing that's being
said is simply untrue, and the person doing it has no idea what the person likes or enjoys.
Person: "I wanted to go skiing with your
brother, but I don't know if he enjoys it"
Qualitative Gaslighter: "He loves skiing, I'
ll go and tell him to go with you"
The
brother feels as though he now needs to portray this personality trait. Qualitative Gaslighting