A Lipstick Lesbian is a cis-female that loves everything about being a women that loves women and have no interest in the opposite sex. Lipstick Lesbians are constantly coming out the closet because they "look straight". Femme is a subtitle for Lipstick Lesbian but Lipstick Lesbians are very dominant and are known to be the "top" in the relationship. They just love make-up, heels and everything girly.
A lipstick lesbian is a lesbian that is feminine in appearance and wears lipstick & make-up to enhance their beauty as well as clothing and hair styles more associated with a traditional female role. Most often, but not always, their mannerisms are also feminine in nature.
My niece from a very rural town in the midwest has just come out and asked me my opinion of the women in California. I told her that if she likes lipstick lesbians to consider Los Angeles as the lesbians look just like models and actresses. However, if she likes a more masculine appearing/acting woman, San Francisco is full of bull dykes and she may be happier in the Bay Area. Either way, she should move out of her town and GO WEST.
A feminine lesbian who tends to dress in very feminine clothing and enjoys cute stuff. Likes flowers and cuties stuff. Often looks like a straight girl, but is actually gay.
A lesbian that looks like a girl. Not the motorcyle bull dyke types. This is a girl you would want to bang and might not know she is a carpet muncher. She might actually wear lipstick while the other kind would wear leather or denim.
The girl did not accept your sexual advances, so obviously she is a dyke. However, she is rather attractive. She must therefore be a lipstick lesbian.