it's when you don't want a serious relationship but you want him / her as your toy to fuck around with.It also can be when she / him are already in a realtionship but you like that person so he/she agrees to be your friend with benefit.
by AshleyPe December 18, 2006
Friends with benefits can do things couples can do except without being labled as a BOYFRIEND and a GIRLFRIEND, when you ask if they want to be friends with benefits with you, you both have to agree on what those BENEFITS are, and it doesn't have to contain sex. If you both agree on sex, then it's also considered as friends with benefits.
Guy: Want to be friends with benefits?
Girl: Sure, but what are the benefits?
Guy: Hugging, kissing, holding hands.
Girl: No sex?
Guy: Nope
Girl: Okay sure then.
Thats an example of becoming friends with benefits. You can choose the benefits you want! It doesn't mean you have to have sex or oral or anything, as long as you decide the benefits you want and you both agree on it, then its official.
Girl: Sure, but what are the benefits?
Guy: Hugging, kissing, holding hands.
Girl: No sex?
Guy: Nope
Girl: Okay sure then.
Thats an example of becoming friends with benefits. You can choose the benefits you want! It doesn't mean you have to have sex or oral or anything, as long as you decide the benefits you want and you both agree on it, then its official.
by XiLLuZi0nzX June 11, 2007
by Montgomery Montgomery January 11, 2007
In most teenagers this means to have all the qualities of being in a relationship with out the actual commitment. Like holding hands, kissing, hanging out, sometimes even sex. without the actual title "boyfriend" "girlfriend"
Friend: Is that your boyfriend/girlfriend ?
You: No he's/she's just a friend.
Friend: Why were you kissing your friend ?
You: friends with benefits
You: No he's/she's just a friend.
Friend: Why were you kissing your friend ?
You: friends with benefits
by yootinaa August 15, 2015
A term commonly used by men to appease women so they can get in their pants. Very rarely lasts and usually friendship part doesn't happen. Usually ends with one falling for the other then broken hearted when the other doesnt reciprocate. They then never speak again.
He says we are friends with benefits but we never hang out as friends and he only talks to me when he wants to fuck.
by Thelittlem August 21, 2017
by Not so super DJ Gennady May 20, 2003
a friend that you are not supposed to be commited to or attached to, that you fuck, or do other sexual activities with.
i have a hot friend with benefits
by laurengonewild November 08, 2003