The gay bar effect refers to the situations where safe spaces/groups for specific individuals go down hill when another group of people the space was not intended for joins to be away from the people who disrespect the individualises the space/group was intended for who than join in to get to the previous group of people the space was not for causing the space to no longer be safe for the people it was meant to protect.
Similar to how many gay bars meet their demise with straight woman seeking a safe place to get away from the straight & homophobic men who hit on them who than follow them into the gay bars making it no longer a safe place for the community it was meant for as you don't know who's just going to call you a fag on your quest to find a fellow gay man.
Similar to how many gay bars meet their demise with straight woman seeking a safe place to get away from the straight & homophobic men who hit on them who than follow them into the gay bars making it no longer a safe place for the community it was meant for as you don't know who's just going to call you a fag on your quest to find a fellow gay man.
Our Pagan chat room is suffering the gay bar effect as an influx of Catholics storm in to force their beliefs on the atheists who just wanted a safe place away from them.
by 36368876 May 21, 2022

by TOMORDATROM September 15, 2017

A phrase used to express your opinion on and or reminisce about awesome times! It is often also used to describe people, things, or actions. Synonyms include cool, awesome, dandy, spectacular, unique, dandy, or down right nice !
It is commonly used amongst 20 year olds, heard in Europe and US.
It is commonly used amongst 20 year olds, heard in Europe and US.
Did you see what Kaylee did yesterday? She is so gay bar!
We had a really gay bar time while catching up with our high school friends in Tuscany!
That's so gay bar! I love it!
We had a really gay bar time while catching up with our high school friends in Tuscany!
That's so gay bar! I love it!
by cougstobe February 13, 2024

by falmed February 16, 2022

Joey Hiykel is so fucking fast, just because he thinks out of the box doesn't mean he is frowned appon.
by SHARKKING February 1, 2022

The act of timing your heavy drinking with the arrival of a drug dealer so you don't blackout before their arrival and delivery of your nose beers.
by Entrofoxx December 9, 2019
