A bullying tactic, singling out, or making fun of a fat person, under the guise of helping them realise they need to lose 50 pounds pronto or they're going to become ill, die prematurely, or be a major burden on the health system, when in actual fact it's an individual's bias against people they consider to be unattractive in their immediate social or professional circle.
1.You're a plus size female out dancing at a club with friends. You notice a small group of guys at the bar staring at you and laughing. Eventually one of them comes over and starts trying to dance behind you, rubbing against your ass, while his friends laugh uncontrollably. When you turn around and tell him to piss off, he laughs in your face and says, “Nah, girl, I’d totally fuck you if I thought I could find your pussy in all that blubber!”
2. You're a fat person using the elliptical trainer at the gym. A man walks by and gives you an encouraging pat on the shoulder. “GOOD FOR YOU!” he says loudly, a little patronizingly. He has pointed out that seeing people who look like you exercising in public is a strange and unfamiliar occurrance, an idea rooted in the assumption that fat people are uniformly lazy and unhealthy, and you, as an exception, therefore deserve to be recognized and lauded. You feel singled out, othered, and very uncomfortable.
3. A fat guy in a cafeteria is loading his plate with vegetables. The chef gives him a smile, makes a fat shaming comment, "I spose all that green stuff means room for more pudding eh?" as he sniggers expecting him to enjoy the joke that is essentially on him.
The fat guy finishes his meal and goes to leave the cafeteria. Just then a work colleague passes and grabs his male breast. "Caw get a load of these moobs! You lactatin' or what son?" jests the work colleague with a gaggle of sycophant friends with a collective IQ of 81.
2. You're a fat person using the elliptical trainer at the gym. A man walks by and gives you an encouraging pat on the shoulder. “GOOD FOR YOU!” he says loudly, a little patronizingly. He has pointed out that seeing people who look like you exercising in public is a strange and unfamiliar occurrance, an idea rooted in the assumption that fat people are uniformly lazy and unhealthy, and you, as an exception, therefore deserve to be recognized and lauded. You feel singled out, othered, and very uncomfortable.
3. A fat guy in a cafeteria is loading his plate with vegetables. The chef gives him a smile, makes a fat shaming comment, "I spose all that green stuff means room for more pudding eh?" as he sniggers expecting him to enjoy the joke that is essentially on him.
The fat guy finishes his meal and goes to leave the cafeteria. Just then a work colleague passes and grabs his male breast. "Caw get a load of these moobs! You lactatin' or what son?" jests the work colleague with a gaggle of sycophant friends with a collective IQ of 81.
by professional dancer June 8, 2013
Get the fat shaming mug.Patriarchal society has men do things like locker room talk against women, continuing traditions of burning women at the stake for pissing off religious male nut cases, calling Jesus' wife a whore simply to demean her or unnecessarily, making men feel entitled to women's bodies, media objectify women, and slut shaming is another misogynistic tactic snowflake perverted men raised with double standards resort to but have no shame or remorse for looking up porn for hours on end, oogling over women in WWE, going through magazines of women in lingerie. It encompasses all things in society we tell ourselves that men have more freedom and women have less because it comes down to our archaic views we have on sexuality and double standards that people feel everyone is entitled too.
Why should society be justified in slut shaming women yet the media has them as sex objects? Shouldn't we hold better versions of both genders and be able to respect each other?
by NotaLeo! February 8, 2022
Get the slut shaming mug.A term coined by social reformists to refer to the ignorant shaming, insulting, badmouthing and obscene remarks aimed at individuals possessing one of three of the standard body types (their being Mesomorphic, Endomorphic and Ectomorphic, namely body types that either specialize in creating and storing fat cells, creating and storing muscle cells, or a rapid metabolism that specializes in providing energy to the body by consuming resources that normally produce muscle and fat cells). Endomorphs. Endomorphs have a soft round body build and a high proportion of fat tissue, a trait passed on by cultures residing in cold climates, who relied upon the stored fat for survival. In the modern culture, inspired by a false image of the “perfect human body” in popular media, the need for fat storage in warmer climates (inhabitants of which having more Endomorphic or Ectomorphic body types) isn’t as necessary. As humans tend to feel a strong need to put down others to make themselves feel better, they have developed ways to shame individuals with a higher than average fat content (just like those who’re a different height, color, or culture) by insulting them for their differences.
Ricky: “HEY FATTY! UR SO FAT, WHEN YOU SIT AROUND THE HOUSE, U SIT AROUND THE HOUSE!
Bobby: “Seriously? Are you fat shaming because I aced the Midterms, and you flunked out? Just stop.”
Ricky: “NAW MAN, U JUST FAT! FAT FAT FAT! YEP, BECAUSE YOU’RE BIGGER THAN ME, YOU DESERVE RIDICULE!”
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Sarah: “Hey, could I have a small strawberry ice cream, please?
Skinny Tara (*two enormous fistfuls of icecream in hand*): “DUMB FATTY! DRINK A SLIMFAST INSTEAD!
Bobby: “Seriously? Are you fat shaming because I aced the Midterms, and you flunked out? Just stop.”
Ricky: “NAW MAN, U JUST FAT! FAT FAT FAT! YEP, BECAUSE YOU’RE BIGGER THAN ME, YOU DESERVE RIDICULE!”
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Sarah: “Hey, could I have a small strawberry ice cream, please?
Skinny Tara (*two enormous fistfuls of icecream in hand*): “DUMB FATTY! DRINK A SLIMFAST INSTEAD!
by Musemaster™ March 9, 2015
Get the Fat Shaming mug.The act of shaming someone for seeming to be more sexual or want more sexual attention than you'd like. It pertains to the idea that sexuality is related to being "conquered" or degraded- and so if you're someone who takes part in a lot of sexual activity, you've forfeited your right for respect and have earned yourself the label of a slut. It's particularly aimed at women, and seems to be concentrated in high school, university and frat house culture.
It can also be used to label someone who seems to have low standards for who they engage in sexual activity with.
It can also be used to label someone who seems to have low standards for who they engage in sexual activity with.
"Do you see what that girl is wearing? What a slut!"
"Stop slut shaming people."
"Oh my God you're one of those feminist bitches!"
"Stop slut shaming people."
"Oh my God you're one of those feminist bitches!"
by blehdelableh September 27, 2017
Get the slut shaming mug.1. What anyone who uses the term "special snowflake" is doing. Commonly done by edgelords of the internet to look cool.
2. People failing to recognise that third gender individuals and those who lack gender identity have existed long before Tumblr.
People pull out the words “special snowflake” when someone does any of the following:
- Have a profile/blog that talks about their non-“traditional” gender identity, sexuality, or neurodiversity.
- Ever mention that they have a non-“traditional” gender identity, sexuality, or neurodiversity
- Ever talk about any kind of non-“traditional”/non-white/cis/straight/neurotypical/etc. identity
- Want words to exist for that identity so they can talk about it
- Want people to accept that that identity exists
None of that is about thinking they are “special”. It’s about wanting to be able to talk about identities in the same way that other people can by default. That’s when you'll see people use the words “special snowflake”. I’ve never actually seen anyone who made up a non-“traditional” identity because they want to be special, but I have seen a lot of people shamed as special snowflakes for talking about their non-“traditional” identity, and people assuming they are lying, treating them as lying, etc. far beyond how likely it is that they actually are lying.
2. People failing to recognise that third gender individuals and those who lack gender identity have existed long before Tumblr.
People pull out the words “special snowflake” when someone does any of the following:
- Have a profile/blog that talks about their non-“traditional” gender identity, sexuality, or neurodiversity.
- Ever mention that they have a non-“traditional” gender identity, sexuality, or neurodiversity
- Ever talk about any kind of non-“traditional”/non-white/cis/straight/neurotypical/etc. identity
- Want words to exist for that identity so they can talk about it
- Want people to accept that that identity exists
None of that is about thinking they are “special”. It’s about wanting to be able to talk about identities in the same way that other people can by default. That’s when you'll see people use the words “special snowflake”. I’ve never actually seen anyone who made up a non-“traditional” identity because they want to be special, but I have seen a lot of people shamed as special snowflakes for talking about their non-“traditional” identity, and people assuming they are lying, treating them as lying, etc. far beyond how likely it is that they actually are lying.
by angelArmageddon November 22, 2016
Get the minority shaming mug.When someone shames another person for having a lot of sex and/or wearing showy clothes when it is none of that persons business how much sex the other person has and/or what they wear.
*A girl wears an outfit that shows off their body*
Arrogant asshole: Dude you can almost see her tits such a slut
A decent human being: Dude stop slut shaming her
Arrogant asshole: But she is a slut
(Because apparently people are not allowed to choose which fabrics they cover themselves with and how much of it)
Arrogant asshole: Dude you can almost see her tits such a slut
A decent human being: Dude stop slut shaming her
Arrogant asshole: But she is a slut
(Because apparently people are not allowed to choose which fabrics they cover themselves with and how much of it)
by Decent-Human-Being December 23, 2017
Get the Slut shaming mug.Judging a woman for having sex with who she likes. Rarely, if ever, happens to men. Men get called stud and cheered on by their mates. Women get caled sluts for the same behaviour.
Paradoxically women get called frigid and receive the anger of the lonely red pill blokes for not having sex with them but get slut-shamed when they have sex with the actual men or women that they WANT to have sex with.
Literally a double standard with which to judge women for having sex with who they want because men are heroes for having as much sex as possible but women aren't.
More formally known as sexism and usually used by dick heads who laugh loudly that women should make them a sandwich because they are too fucking lazy or incompetent to make their own sandwiches.
Used mainly by neanderthals who think they are macho when inside they are quivering emotional wrecks who could barely speak if they had to name and recognise an emotion besides anger.
Basically another way to judge women because whether we sleep with you or not you still judge us so we might as well just avoid you altogether.
Paradoxically women get called frigid and receive the anger of the lonely red pill blokes for not having sex with them but get slut-shamed when they have sex with the actual men or women that they WANT to have sex with.
Literally a double standard with which to judge women for having sex with who they want because men are heroes for having as much sex as possible but women aren't.
More formally known as sexism and usually used by dick heads who laugh loudly that women should make them a sandwich because they are too fucking lazy or incompetent to make their own sandwiches.
Used mainly by neanderthals who think they are macho when inside they are quivering emotional wrecks who could barely speak if they had to name and recognise an emotion besides anger.
Basically another way to judge women because whether we sleep with you or not you still judge us so we might as well just avoid you altogether.
John was slut-shaming Sophie because he was an unevolved sexist moron. John is spreading STDs because he regularly sleeps with multiple women unprotected but calls them sluts for sleeping with him and blames them when he finds outs he has crabs.
by blueredunicorn July 16, 2018
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