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A Pen Pal is person who primarily hits carts
Jared: Yeah man, im a stoner (pulls out cart)
Tyler: yeah okay, Pen Pal
Pen Pal by DMMONEy69 July 14, 2020
a predominately text based friendship. To treat someone like a friend over text but barley given them any recognition in person
Pen-Pal by TheWrong-Robin August 20, 2021
A predominately text based friendship. To be friends with someone over text but to ignore them in person
He’s more of a Pen-pal then a real friend
Pen-pal by TheWrong-Robin August 20, 2021

Modern Day Pen pal 

Two people who exchange constant communication via text and social media but never see each other in real life. Similar to the penpals back in the day who would write and send letters in the mail to each other from different countries yet never meet.
Amy: girl, i see Mikey always in ya comments! are y’all hanging out?

Cassidy: nah sis, he just wanna be a modern day pen pal. Never want to come out my messages and step into real life

bad pen pal 

You meet a girl on a date, but realize you're not quite ready to get in a relationship. She calls you messy but reluctantly gives you her phone number. She then calls you her best pen pal and you talk every day on the phone. You realize later that life is short and you want more than pen pals. You ask her things like do pen pals kiss and she asks if you want to go to Mexico with her. A few months later, you find yourself renting a house next door to her but not sure how to surprise her with it.
Girl: did your phone get hacked? pen pals don't ask about kissing
Guy: I've been thinking about kissing you, I've been a bad pen pal
bad pen pal by #1penpal September 1, 2022

Norwegian Pen Pals

When someone receives a handjob from girl A, and another person receives a handjob from the same girl (girl A). They do not necessarily have to be at the same time.
Guy 1-"Yo dude did Dana give you a handjob?"

Guy 2-" Yeah man she did. Did she give you one?"

Guy 1-" Yeah bro she did. We are officially Norwegian Pen Pals!"

Guy 2-" Sick bro!"