A girl or woman who goes out of their way to bring down other women in order to get male validation and attention
“Beth is such a pick me. She told me she only has guy friends”
“Beth?… I hate to tell you this, but you’re acting like a pick me girl”
“Beth?… I hate to tell you this, but you’re acting like a pick me girl”
by Alex muxh June 16, 2022

annoying girls who think they are "one of the boys" or say "oh my god! I'm sooooo ugly!" but then the next thing you know they compliment themself a millisecond later. They are also attention seekers and compliment fishers
jason: yea bro i totally wanna hang out with you
kaleb: sure, this weekend?
jason: su-
Pick me girl: Oh my god can i come too 🥺👉👈
jason: nah its just for me and my friends
Pick me girl: I can come too right?? Im one of the boys
jason and kyle (internally): ...omg not these pick me girls help us jesus PLEASE
kaleb: sure, this weekend?
jason: su-
Pick me girl: Oh my god can i come too 🥺👉👈
jason: nah its just for me and my friends
Pick me girl: I can come too right?? Im one of the boys
jason and kyle (internally): ...omg not these pick me girls help us jesus PLEASE
by edging_in_my_goon_cave October 1, 2022

“I hang with the boys all day because all other girls start drama, it’s not because I’m a pick me girl I’m just different” -allison
by plobae June 16, 2022

Basically a female simp; A woman obsessed with gaining the attention, approval, and validation of men, often at the expense of other women. They will frequently claim that they’re “not like other girls”, are absurdly eager to please, and will often demean and sabotage other women. Some Pick Me Girls may even develop a form of internalized misogyny out of pressure, trauma, or desperation. Thankfully, Pick Me Girls are usually just a phase for young women.
Example:
Susie: “I’d rather lose my right to vote than lose my right to bear arms!”
Alexandra: “Ah, man. Poor Pick Me Girl. I hope she grows out of it.”
Susie: “I’d rather lose my right to vote than lose my right to bear arms!”
Alexandra: “Ah, man. Poor Pick Me Girl. I hope she grows out of it.”
by UrbanAuthor99.9 August 21, 2023

From the word, it's a pick me, someone who is rather... Weird. Someone who wants the boy's attention, like ok Emily hitting on your brother is cool and all but uh... No.
by xenisaskrunklefr October 16, 2022

A girl who goes out of their way to get guys to game with her, who will do other females dirty and cause issues to keep boys to themselves.
by EmoNinjaPanda April 3, 2022

A femcel term meaning a normal, rational and usually attractive woman, who is not a salty generalising misandrist.
It is a coping term that femcels love using because nobody wants to date them for their horrible behavior (i.e., Nobody picks them.)
It is a coping term that femcels love using because nobody wants to date them for their horrible behavior (i.e., Nobody picks them.)
Femcel: All men are bad, and I hate all men because none of them want to date me.
Pick me girl: That's not a nice thing to say, stop generalising all men.
Femcel: OMG you are putting women down, you are such a pick-me girl!!!
Pick me girl: That's not a nice thing to say, stop generalising all men.
Femcel: OMG you are putting women down, you are such a pick-me girl!!!
by Washington's Spoon February 6, 2025
