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Golden Gay/Lesbian

Harmful term for the lgbtq+ community that is used to signify that a person that identifies as gay or lesbian had never had sex with the other gender.

The term is considered harmful by members of the community for some of the following reasons (list not exclusive):
It shames people that were not identifying with that one term from the beginning on, making them feel less.
It pushes the stereotype of having to know you were gay or lesbian since forever, not allowing people to have space in order to experiment with their sexuality.
It creates this "elite" of people that were always aware they were gay/lesbian.
It takes away from experiences that closeted and scared lgbtq+ people had, trying to fit in by being with the opposite sex.
"Sarah has never been with a man, has she?"
"Yeah, she's a Golden Gay/Lesbian."
by Niel.for.me February 6, 2024
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Gay

Why did you search up "gay" on urban dictionary? That wasn't funny, I know you know what it means, but fine.

1: A gay person is someone who has a sexual/romantic attraction to the same gender.

Happy?
Person 1: I'm gay
Person 2: Okay
Person 1: You are a boy, and I'm aslo a boy, I want to have sex with you.
by Lovegrief February 6, 2024
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gay

There’s only one gay
by bald freddie mercury February 6, 2024
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Dolly gay

A homosexual who looks like a whole lot of other homosexuals. Similar attributes (facial hair, outfits (“costumes”), accessories, et al.

Named for “Dolly,” the cloned sheep (7/5/1996 – 2/14/2003)
Stepping into the NY Eagle, I’m amazed at all the Dolly Gays. I stick out like a sore thumb.
by JeMiSi February 6, 2024
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stonewall gay

A traditional gay man who doesn't believe in the modern political stereotypes traditionally believed by gay people. They are also "traditional gays." Ex. Stonewall gays don't often participate in Pride.
Oh jeez! I wasn't expecting you to think that! Now we know your a stonewall gay.
by Derbae February 6, 2024
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gay lake

Its a lake that is very zesty and maybe even a little gay, idk tho.
P1: "Lets go swim in gay lake."

P2: "NO!!!! IM NOT A ZEST FEST!!!!!"
by TVBoys February 6, 2024
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Gay

"im so gay"
by lucified February 7, 2024
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