Refers to a women, your wife, your girlfriend, bestfriend, your ride or die bitch that is extremely or unusally small. If you are the bigger individual refering to a smaller person it may be used regardless of the extent or diffrence in size. The individual is not only being identified as smaller but someone of importance, a bad bitch, a ride or die, possibly the besty.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.