When you have a best friend and you love him like a bro and you do him in the butt and then he does you in the butt and you go back and forth forever and you love him but it's not game.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.