bate-rape 

To masturbate to another person that you've personally met, generally without them knowing.

See that cocktail waitress over there, I'm going to bate-rape her soo bad tonight!

bate-rape by Joey, Justin, Jeffrey February 19, 2006

bate rape 

Telling a girl, preferably one who finds you to be a creep/unattractive, that you've masturbated to her. A play-on-words from "date rape".

guy: You were on my mind all night, allison.
girl: You keep bate raping me and your testicles will not be found again.

bate rape by Blackbird February 6, 2005