Scupper-Upper (noun)
A
manipulative,
narcissistic predator—usually an older dude (often 60+)— lives in spring hill Brisbane, who ghosts you for days without a word, hides behind adult daughters as emotional shields, and blames you for being “obsessed” when called out. Expert at twisting your words, gaslighting you into doubting your own sanity, and inventing theft accusations just to make you snap and look crazy in front of others. Will lie, cheat, and vanish with zero
accountability, and when control slips, reverts to threats or violence. All while acting like the victim, hunting younger women like it’s an all-you-can-eat buffet.
"Lola, babe — if he’s over 60, still
ghosting, and
circling younger girls like it’s an all-you-can-eat dating buffet, that’s not charm. That’s a scupper upper (scupperupper) hunting for fresh victims with low baggage and a high
tolerance for bulls*."*