Demanding a level of commitment from someone in a
relationship, as if they should have read
your mind. A way of keeping someone focused on their own faults, keeping you safe and secure from reproach.
With my
girlfriend, not only did I have to remember all
the holidays and what we did and wore that day, I had to remember everthing we said to each other and know what kind of gift she wanted and how I was supposed to
present them to her. What a perfection abuse hell I had to live through!!