When it gets to that time of night, usually around 3-4am, and everyone is seshed up and been really nice to each other. This is also commonly known as 'licking each-others arses'. Best-mated differs from this because you are that drugged up and walking round using phrases like 'you lot actually are my best-mates' or 'just wanted to let you lot know that you are all proper nice people and i love you all'. When you see someone doing this; you can describe them as 'bestmated'.
Your supportive female friend whose always been there for you. Surpassing all your exceptions as a friend or your sister. She loves you so much that one would think you in a lesbian relationship. Her children are your godchildren.
The etymology of the word emerges from the flourishing relationship between Oprah Winfrey and her best-friend Gayle King.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.