when a girl is still flying under the gaydar about her extreme desire to bump cooters, lick beav, bullfrog the vag, scooby doo the furry hatchet wound, etc.
in other words, she is still believed by most to play the meat trombone, play the bagpipes, pull the ripcord, etc.
man, i thought for sure i was going to get laid last night. who in their right mind would have thought i'd strike out. classic case of lesbianage! i wish her the best of luck on her beef curtain quest, maybe soon she will share it with the rest of the world.
The combination of the words lesbian and espionage to create a word meaning a female who is secretly (taken from espionage) a lesbian (taken from the word.. you guessed it! lesbian).
Any girl or woman you feel may secretly be hiding there sexuallity can be called a lesbianage.
Example 1
Girl 1: (to Girl 2) Lets go to the bathroom!