When a group of attractive people are placed in a group their attractiveness gets diluted since their differentiating features get compared to other. It is the "Cheerleader Effect" but in reverse.
They are a 10/10 alone but a perfect 6/10 around other attractive people.
Johnny : Yo Vinny this hot chick don't look so hot anymore standing in this beauty pageant!
Vinny : Nah... its The law of averaging 6s. None of these bitches look as hot unless you got them alone!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.