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A soulmate is comprised of certain elements. These elements combined make you feel entirely whole, healed and intact, like no piece is missing from the puzzle.
It's something inside. Describing how a soulmate makes you feel is difficult. It's a profound and lingering emotion which no words can encompass.
You might suddenly and briefly experience flashbacks of your soulmate. You might even feel an odd sense of déjà vu, as if the moment in time has already taken place, perhaps a long time ago, perhaps in a different setting.
You just get each other. You can finish one another's sentences without any thought. You might experience this with your best friend or your family members, but it is the telltale sign of a soulmate when you experience it with your partner.
You fall in love with one anothers flaws. Even soulmate relationships will experience ups and downs. You'll accept both the great and awful tendencies we all have.
It's intense. A soulmate relationship may be more intense than normal relationships, in both good and sometimes bad ways. Even during negative episodes, you're focused on resolving the problem and can see beyond the bad moment.
You're mentally inseparable. Soulmates often have a mental connection similar to twins. You might message each other at the exact same time. Though life may keep you apart at times, your minds will always be in tune if you are soulmates.
It's something inside. Describing how a soulmate makes you feel is difficult. It's a profound and lingering emotion which no words can encompass.
You might suddenly and briefly experience flashbacks of your soulmate. You might even feel an odd sense of déjà vu, as if the moment in time has already taken place, perhaps a long time ago, perhaps in a different setting.
You just get each other. You can finish one another's sentences without any thought. You might experience this with your best friend or your family members, but it is the telltale sign of a soulmate when you experience it with your partner.
You fall in love with one anothers flaws. Even soulmate relationships will experience ups and downs. You'll accept both the great and awful tendencies we all have.
It's intense. A soulmate relationship may be more intense than normal relationships, in both good and sometimes bad ways. Even during negative episodes, you're focused on resolving the problem and can see beyond the bad moment.
You're mentally inseparable. Soulmates often have a mental connection similar to twins. You might message each other at the exact same time. Though life may keep you apart at times, your minds will always be in tune if you are soulmates.
Your soulmate will always make you feel secure and protected. They will make you feel like you have a guardian angel by your side.
You can't imagine your life without each other. A soulmate is not someone you can walk away from that easily. It is someone you can't imagine being without, a person you believe is worth sticking with and fighting for.
You can't imagine your life without each other. A soulmate is not someone you can walk away from that easily. It is someone you can't imagine being without, a person you believe is worth sticking with and fighting for.
by _The Secret_ July 24, 2019
Get the Soulmatemug. A Neurochemical process that occurs when you are in love. Your body is releasing adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin.
Once you've fallen for someone, your body naturally speeds up its processing of these feel-good hormones, which creates a chemical intensity that is often described as "love." It's not long before our bodies become addicted to the euphoric feelings of love triggered by that special someone.
Once you've fallen for someone, your body naturally speeds up its processing of these feel-good hormones, which creates a chemical intensity that is often described as "love." It's not long before our bodies become addicted to the euphoric feelings of love triggered by that special someone.
Contrary to You, separation can create
feelings of sadness to downright agony depending on the relationship and the amount of time you've been apart. Naturally, missing your loved one is a totally normal reaction to being separated from them. Whether you're apart for weeks, or even a matter of just hours and days. Pining after someone who isn't physically with you can give a sad-like feeling. So it's not suprising the chemical reactions your brain may experience when you miss your partner.
feelings of sadness to downright agony depending on the relationship and the amount of time you've been apart. Naturally, missing your loved one is a totally normal reaction to being separated from them. Whether you're apart for weeks, or even a matter of just hours and days. Pining after someone who isn't physically with you can give a sad-like feeling. So it's not suprising the chemical reactions your brain may experience when you miss your partner.
by _The Secret_ October 27, 2019
Get the Youmug. /ˌdʒʌkstəpəˈzɪʃ(ə)n/
the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect.
the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting effect.
by _The Secret_ October 28, 2019
Get the Juxtapositionmug. The person you want in your life forever, someone you built a strong connection with through an extremely rough time. You grew together, and although you had hard times together you both learnt and grew stronger as people.
You said some hurtful things to her/him, but none of it you meant. You'd made false allegations to hurt her/him without thinking of how that might affect them. It most likely started out of pain from something they did early on in the relationship. Your frustration has turned to some hurtful things.
You came in to each others lives for a reason, a good reason.
I want you in my life forever. There is so much more to you and I. We no longer need to hurt each other, a kiss and a cuddle is a lot easier. Try it.
Crony I am prepared to be vulnerable for you.
You came in to each others lives for a reason, a good reason.
I want you in my life forever. There is so much more to you and I. We no longer need to hurt each other, a kiss and a cuddle is a lot easier. Try it.
Crony I am prepared to be vulnerable for you.
by _The Secret_ March 25, 2020
Get the Cronymug. There are 5 Love Languages.
More than one love language can apply to any one person.
Understanding is the key to forming a long lasting bond and relationship.
Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “Your eyebrows look great today".
Gifts – a gift says, “she thinks of me".
Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would
like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.
Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention.
Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and
listening.
Physical touch – holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all expressions of love.
More than one love language can apply to any one person.
Understanding is the key to forming a long lasting bond and relationship.
Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “Your eyebrows look great today".
Gifts – a gift says, “she thinks of me".
Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would
like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.
Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention.
Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and
listening.
Physical touch – holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all expressions of love.
by _The Secret_ February 25, 2020
Get the Love Languagemug. by _The Secret_ February 25, 2020
Get the Freneticmug. Mirroring or The chameleon effect describes our human instinct to “empathise and affiliate” with other people.
We intentionally imitate subtle aspects of each other's mannerisms, postures and facial expressions. We also imitate each other's speech patterns, including inflexions, talking speed, and speaking time. Sometimes we even take on the foreign accent of the person to whom we are talking to or thinking about, sometimes leading to embarrassing consequences.
We intentionally imitate subtle aspects of each other's mannerisms, postures and facial expressions. We also imitate each other's speech patterns, including inflexions, talking speed, and speaking time. Sometimes we even take on the foreign accent of the person to whom we are talking to or thinking about, sometimes leading to embarrassing consequences.
Also referred to as mimicry, it can occur subconsciously. Your spouse or crush may be overseas in China, and you could find yourself subconsciously travelling nearby to Chinatown, New York for example, as a way of being with them. Mirroring consists of a wide-ranging spectrum including, but not limited to, dress, gestures, vocal pitch and tone, posture, distance, eye contact, distance, and body orientation.
Research has shown that people increase mimicry of another person when affiliation goals exist compared to when not meaning if you are engaged in a task with other people, or working on a collaborative project, it is more likely that mimicry will be displayed. However, the odds are that no one will realize it. Mimicry is often one aspect of being charismatic, being persuasive, building rapport, and having a positive impact on someone. On the other hand, even if you aren't aware you're mimicking, it can be an expression of great fondness. Repeating their words, catchphrases and accent, even drinking and eating the same foods as them is a tell tale sign you have chemistry or strong feelings
Research has shown that people increase mimicry of another person when affiliation goals exist compared to when not meaning if you are engaged in a task with other people, or working on a collaborative project, it is more likely that mimicry will be displayed. However, the odds are that no one will realize it. Mimicry is often one aspect of being charismatic, being persuasive, building rapport, and having a positive impact on someone. On the other hand, even if you aren't aware you're mimicking, it can be an expression of great fondness. Repeating their words, catchphrases and accent, even drinking and eating the same foods as them is a tell tale sign you have chemistry or strong feelings
by _The Secret_ February 25, 2020
Get the Mirroringmug.