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Not forever

Its hard to explain the empty feeling in your heart. Why does it hurt so much? Why wont it go away.

You had hopes and dreams with a certain person but they'd continuously hurt you. Was it their way of pushing you away? Why couldn't they just leave the relationship?

You made yourself vulnerable to this person and they broke you down time after time. The pain was unbearable. You tried to ask why they did these things to hurt you, but they'd laugh at you and call you sensitive. The unanswered questions are the pain now.

Someone far more special will soon come into your life, someone who brings you up, who cherishes the small things, who doesn't feel entitled, and who brings the best out in you not the worst.
The pain is not forever. It was just a lesson along the way. It's okay to be vulnerable. It's all worth it in the end.
by _The Secret_ December 12, 2019
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Love

Although almost noone can agree on a single definition of love, most agree that it plays a significant role on their psychological well-being (Te Taha Hinengaro) and our Te Whare Tapa Whā.

Love is not an emotion nor a feeling, but a chemical reaction driven by extreme feelings of respect, euphoric attraction and willingness to put another's happiness and well-being above your own.

Love and lust have very similar characteristics, but unlike lust, love is long lasting.
Other definitions are mostlikely emotionally charged and bear no logical or rational reasoning. They have no correlation to the bigger picture; that is: love for family members or even pets, but are purely directed at one's partner.

However with your partner love can in some cases give you a lust-like feeling after years of being in a close relationship.

Love is so nebulous to many, even the famous band 'Foreigner' wrote a song titled "I want to know what love is".
by _The Secret_ October 27, 2019
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Ciao Bella

Caio bella is an informal Italian expression meaning "goodbye beautiful."

Can also be used as an offensive goodbye.
Mainly used when saying goodbye to a gorgeous Lady.

Ciao Bella.
by _The Secret_ September 14, 2019
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Frenetic

Frenetic:

fast and energetic in a rather wild and uncontrolled way
Frenetic:

Not based on a particular person.
by _The Secret_ February 25, 2020
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Love Language

There are 5 Love Languages.

More than one love language can apply to any one person.

Understanding is the key to forming a long lasting bond and relationship.

Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “Your eyebrows look great today".

Gifts – a gift says, “she thinks of me".

Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would
like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.

Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention.
Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and
listening.

Physical touch – holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all expressions of love.
Importantly, Express your love language (sign of affirmation) with your partner or friends.
by _The Secret_ February 25, 2020
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Anavrin

Nirvana spelt backwards. Also the store on the Netflix series "You".

Beck can be seen wearing an Anavrin shirt spelt backwards in the series.

It has uncanny similarities to the L.A store chain Erehwon.
Anavrin
by _The Secret_ January 8, 2020
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You

A Neurochemical process that occurs when you are in love. Your body is releasing adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin.

Once you've fallen for someone, your body naturally speeds up its processing of these feel-good hormones, which creates a chemical intensity that is often described as "love." It's not long before our bodies become addicted to the euphoric feelings of love triggered by that special someone.
Contrary to You, separation can create
feelings of sadness to downright agony depending on the relationship and the amount of time you've been apart. Naturally, missing your loved one is a totally normal reaction to being separated from them. Whether you're apart for weeks, or even a matter of just hours and days. Pining after someone who isn't physically with you can give a sad-like feeling. So it's not suprising the chemical reactions your brain may experience when you miss your partner.
by _The Secret_ October 27, 2019
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