The sudden, bittersweet moment when a memory of someone collides with the realisation that they’re gone. From Greek thanatos (death) + anamnesis (recollection).
“I had a flash of thanamnesis when I went to text my dad, then remembered he passed years ago.”
“Every time I smell her perfume, the thanamnesis hits me all over again.”
“It’s not just grief — it’s thanamnesis: the instant loss sneaks back into the present.”
“Every time I smell her perfume, the thanamnesis hits me all over again.”
“It’s not just grief — it’s thanamnesis: the instant loss sneaks back into the present.”
by Wreckage1981 August 25, 2025

The ache of wanting to share something with someone who isn’t alive anymore — a longing that feels like reaching for a ghost.
“I felt a wave of ghostlonging when I wanted to show my brother the new car I bought.”
“Holidays always bring a kind of ghostlonging for the people who should be here.”
“That sudden ghostlonging makes it feel like they’re just out of reach.”
“Holidays always bring a kind of ghostlonging for the people who should be here.”
“That sudden ghostlonging makes it feel like they’re just out of reach.”
by Wreckage1981 August 25, 2025
