8 definitions by ThePipYay

Up the sleeve

A variant of “in the closet” specifically for asexuals (aka “aces”) concealing their sexual orientation from others.

“My parents don’t know I’m an ace. I’m up the sleeve.”

by ThePipYay November 4, 2021

Up the sleeve

A variant of the phrase "in the closet" specifically for asexuals (aka "aces") concealing their sexual orientation from others.

My parents don't know I'm an ace. I'm still up the sleeve.

by ThePipYay November 8, 2021

Up the sleeve

A variation of “In the closet” specifically for asexuals (AKA aces) that are concealing their sexual identity from others.

“My parents don’t know I’m ace. I’m still up the sleeve.”

by ThePipYay October 29, 2021

In the deck

An asexual (ace) person who hasn’t realized that they’re ace yet. Similar to the term “egg” for trans people.

“Zack told me he doesn’t understand why anyone would want to have sex when they could just masturbate. I think he’s in the deck.”

by ThePipYay October 29, 2021

Adfauxcate

Someone who claims to advocate for a group but does so in bad faith, having harmful intentions or practices towards them. Can also be a verb, the act of nefariously "advocating" for a group.

"Don't donate to Autism Speaks, they're a bunch of autism adfauxcates who want to 'cure' us."

by ThePipYay June 11, 2022

Shuffled

When someone is unsure whether or not they are asexual (aka ace), and are questioning it.

“I think girls look pretty but I can’t tell if it’s sexual attraction or just aesthetic attraction. I don’t know if I’m an ace. I’m shuffled.”

by ThePipYay November 4, 2021

Shuffled

A word describing someone questioning whether or not they are asexual (aka "ace").

I think girls are pretty but I don't know if I'm feeling sexual attraction or just aesthetic. I can't tell if I'm an ace yet. I'm shuffled.

by ThePipYay November 8, 2021