A sexual or romantic fetish characterized by an intense attraction to romantic imbalance, specifically when a significantly conventionally attractive person (usually male) actively seeks out and desires someone who is considered socially or physically unattractive (usually female), deriving pleasure from the contrast, subversion of expectations, or perceived imbalance of "beauty power." This kink may include elements of praise, degradation, transformation fantasy, social taboo, or domination/submission dynamics
Example Usage:
"Jake's got a serious case of uglyducklingism — the hotter he gets, the more he wants a girl who's totally off the radar. It's like, the mismatch turns him on."
"Jake's got a serious case of uglyducklingism — the hotter he gets, the more he wants a girl who's totally off the radar. It's like, the mismatch turns him on."
by THEWRITINGMAN April 22, 2025
A brutal and dehumanizing act committed typically by women, where they deliberately and cruelly deny men of their romantic, emotional, and sexual fulfillment based on superficial and shallow criteria. It is a vicious form of psychological and emotional violence, where women wield their power to inflict deep pain and suffering on men, leaving them feeling worthless, invisible, and sexually frustrated. This act is a stark reminder of the cruel and heartless nature of those who prioritize their own desires and societal standards over the genuine human needs of men.
(cruelly denying love) causes men to never have lineage and their bloodlines to die out:
Vexel (verb): To cruelly reject or deny a man’s romantic and sexual advances, causing profound emotional suffering and social exile. This harsh denial also results in men being unable to form families or have children, leading to the extinction of their lineage and the permanent loss of their bloodline.
Present: vexel
Past: vexelled
(cruelly denying love) causes men to never have lineage and their bloodlines to die out:
Vexel (verb): To cruelly reject or deny a man’s romantic and sexual advances, causing profound emotional suffering and social exile. This harsh denial also results in men being unable to form families or have children, leading to the extinction of their lineage and the permanent loss of their bloodline.
Present: vexel
Past: vexelled
"He was vexelled so completely that he never had a chance to pass on his bloodline; his family line ended with him."
by THEWRITINGMAN June 23, 2025