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ILWIL!

An acronym for 'I Love Whoever I Love!'. The expression functions as a new standard for sexuality and exists to blur the lines between queer and heterosexual labels of sexuality. More particularly, it takes away the pressure for LGBT members to come out in heteronormative surroundings since it is not only used by queer people but also cisgender and heterosexual persons. It can usually be found next to a person's pronouns e.g. on social media.

Possible meanings:

1) 'Expect me to be willing to have sex with/date any person, no matter which group of people I am actually attracted to.'
2) 'My sexuality is: who cares?'
3) 'I don't care about a label for my sexuality, so neither should you.'
Example 1:
Leah
ilwil! (she/her)

Example 2:
Troy
they/them | ILWIL
by QueerEar July 6, 2021
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