tom pham 

Verb. When for no reason one member of a group of friends refuses to partake in the evenings reasonably entertaining activities for some trivial, almost nonexistent reason. Whether it be im tired, i need a shower, or im on the last boss of god war, they all equally qualify.

Friend 1: ayo wanna chill with us tonight were rollin squad deep

Friend 2: ehhhh maybe idk im kinda tired

Friend 1: dude its friday night come on lets do something

Friend 2 : idk man i needa shower i might just chill at home tonight

Friend 1: Weeeeeeu your pulling a tom pham right now

tom pham by haaaack3r July 15, 2010

Tom Pham's mentality 

A word that describes someone who has the mentality to become a 3x St George Football Champion, U14 Asian Cup Champion, 2x Ballingardcup Champion and 6x McDonald's MVP.

Can also be said as "TPJ Mentality".

"Braa he got that Tom Pham's mentality! He's cool asf!"

"You don't know me, you don't have that TPJ mentality!"

Tom Pham's mentality by Bennythehandyman October 13, 2023