3. The act of jerking off in a jar of mayonnaise and putting it back in the fridge to chill, for someone else to find and enjoy.
1. "Fuck babe. I wanna bang your rafe."
2. "He's such a rafe."
3. Barry: "I rafed your place last week!"
Joy: "Fuck. I was wondering why the mayo tasted so strange."
Barry: "Was it good?"
Joy: "Hell yeah. Can I suck you?"
Raves are sometimes called "rafes" by people in the scene who consider the concept of a traditional rave somewhat humorous. Calling a particular event a "rafe" instead of a "rave" is a slightly sarcastic way of saying, "This isn't one of those 'goofy' raves, it's more hardcore." Hardcore, of course, can refer to any number of niche elements of a rave that can be "more hardcore." (More glowsticking, more breakdancing, more HHC, more Jungle/DnB, more PLUR, more underground, etc.)