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to bite the pillow 

To have unlubricated or painful anal sex (usually referring to gay sex), referring to the face-down-ass-up position of the recipient and the need to bite something to keep quiet.
#1 "So, did you guys do it last night?"

#2 "Yeah, but he had no lube, so I had to bite the pillow"

#1 "Ouch"
to bite the pillow by RCAP March 30, 2011

bite the pillow

Someone would bite the pillow when they’re getting anal.
Paul most definitely bite the pillow when he’s getting anal.
bite the pillow by Gorlfriend May 28, 2018

pillow-biter 

An exceptionally vigorous butt-pounding between men in the dorsal-ventral position, generally noteworthy for its combination of depth, force and velocity, such that the poundee is transported to an otherworldly, orally-fixated state of extreme "hurt-so-good" pleasure as to unconsciously bite down on a pillow, duvet, forearm, Jack Russel terrier, or anything else that happens to come with close proximity of his mouth.
Josie: Did you see Tom last night?

Johnny: Until the lights went out, then I saw stars.

Josie: Total pillow-biter, huh?

Johnny: Been spitting out feathers all day.

Josie: The Tomster sure likes to pound ass.

Johnny: One of his many charms.

Josie: Many?

Johnny: Hey now...
pillow-biter by JohnnyAZ May 18, 2006

Pillow Biter

Someone who is receiving such a ridiculous anal pounding from a man's penis, a female with a foreign object such as a pole, or in many cases close relatives with shampoo bottles, that they choose to bite down on their pillow for some relief from the pain.
Pillow biting is looked down on in the gay community.
Pillow Biter by AntiClockwise April 24, 2003

pillow biter

1: usually in reference to a male who while being anally punished, takes to biting down on the pillow in an attempt to muffle the cries of horrific gay pleasure.
2:Can also be used for certain obliging ladies who enjoy the brown being potted after the pink.
1:Barrymore.
2:my girlfriend Carly.
pillow biter by Richie Essex November 21, 2003

pillow biter

A slang and highly derogatory term for a homosexual male. It was likely inspired by the notion that a male engaged in anal sex would be face-down into a pillow, biting into it.
"I think it's about time that those pillow biters be allowed to get married. They have rights, too."
pillow biter by Oyx August 5, 2008
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

After school, The Modells on Jamaica Ave was active. Respectfully.
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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

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Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.
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"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
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