a somewhat masculine, gay woman with just a hint of a femme in her, i.e., she may look like a guy one day but look like a girl the next. she may be a bit more feminine than most studs or wear makeup. a soft stud will usually have a femme for a girlfriend but may also date another stud that is more masculine than her.

It's a Lesbian that dresses in men's attire, the man in the relationship - but acts feminine, wears some makeup sometimes, and acknowledges very well that she's a female and is happy about it.

She may or may not date another stud (either a hard stud or it can be another soft stud - doesnt matter)

But a soft stud prefers a Fem.

IT ALL JUST DEPENDS ON THE SOFT STUD.