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girl mean 

Passive aggressive behavior designed to exclude another female from your friends, from the conversation, or just to make her feel uncomfortable and unwelcome in general.

think of all the fake smiles followed by the eye-roll, or blatantly ignoring another girl to make it known she's unwanted - both behaviors are girl mean.
girl mean by deaddaffodils March 19, 2009
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Mean Girl 

I can't trust anything Cady says anymore. Her nasty behavior, her conniving attitude, her double-dealing actions, she's really turned into a mean girl.
Mean Girl by Ric. February 4, 2009

classic mean girl

Noun- one who let's an obsession over a high school boyfriend dictate the way they treat those around him. This creature is notoriously deceptive and conspires with a fellow mean girl to torture her ex's new love.
Amanda banana is a classic mean girl bc she can't get over her ex, a man she does not even want for her own.
classic mean girl by Overit March 6, 2014

Mean Girl Gay

The type of gay that makes you feel judged and unwelcomed.
Oh look, Greg and Hart, they’re mean girl gay.
Mean Girl Gay by CherryChem January 31, 2020

Mean Girl 

A little whore who tries to fit in by being a bitch. Most are abused by their family and turn to drugs and sex when they are older. Usually, the mean girls are seen in Middle school, High school, and sometimes college and late elementary.
Mean Girl 1: omg did you like see her but its so big and ugly
Mean Girl 2: lol ikr

And the teachers never take a fuckin' clue.
Mean Girl by InsaneChibi July 31, 2011

Mean girl activism 

This is a form of activism that started with the millennial generation and became main stream due to Gen Z and the “fairy comment” subculture.

The influence of the movie Mean Girls and other cliche holidaywood coming of age films centered around teenage drama made “mean girl behavior” more acceptable for a period of time. As millennials grew up and became socially aware, these former mean girls abandoned their tactics of criticizing other women.

With these dormant mean girl skills, many millennial mean girls created mean girl activism. Mean girl activism took all the typical high school mean girl behavior and changed the target to elected officials or other sources of influence in order to rally support for a specific cause.

Girls who are bullies and use "girl agression" (nasty comments, trickery, deceit, excluding people from events, spreading rumors, stealing boyfriends,etc.) to manipulate others are now using these skills to help push for policy reform and legislative change . They will use text messaging, email, three-way-calling, social media blasting, and any other weapon at their disposal to acheieve these goals.

These girls are often popular because everyone is either afraid of them or wants to be like them. They tend to have armies of followers comprising their clique. Mean girl activists use this popularity to their advantage to influence their clique to sign petitions, make donations, attend protests, vote, and cyber bully elected officials.
“I used to be such a mean girl in high school until I grew up and matured into a mean girl activist. Now when I feel that urge come along, I call the major and list out every physical imperfection I can find on his face as well as what cosmetic procedures he needs to fix them. After that I demand he defunds the police

Mary’s social media feed is full of mean girl activism, but she did help raise thousands of dollars to support the fight against racial injustice”

Mean-girl mugged 

A social attack meant to: oppress, despirit, embarrass, confuse, and destroy the target person's confidence; it's a mind-fuck. This attack is done usually by a teenage girl, or girl in her early 20's. This is a subclass of gaslighting and troll attacks.

The attack can be complex; it involves the girl talking to her target (the mark) using any mixture of bullshit, like:

1. Portraying/acting out a sarcastic character with an altered voice

2. While obnoxiously taking a contrarian position to something obviously opposite in the discussion. Basically, two-face shit

3. And using a series of gas-lighting techniques-- or blatant lying-- to weaken confidence (e.g. "Stopp. Read the room. No one thinks your funny"--when really the exact opposite is true)

4. Fake-complimenting the target (i.e. only to tell them they look like absolute shit, say, ten seconds later)

5. Feigning interest in the target's life only to lead them down a road of sudden and precise personal insults (i.e. ..so much for sharing your traumatic life events with someone)

Once the target buys into the attacker's positive advances (i.e. the trigger point)-- the attacker will switch their personality (and position). Then, attack the target by saying the opposite of all the positive shit they said before-- this can include lying, gaslighting; the goal is to do all the emotional damage. This process can vary, be complex, drawn-out (or short), and repeated over and over again to the attacker's fucked up satisfaction.
Attacker Girl: "ohhh I REALLY like your hairrrr....... it's like my friends hair; except theirs is soft, silky, isn't greasy, doesn't have dandruff and split ends, and isnt all static-y, and actually smells goood..."

Targeted Girl: (....Fuck... I just got mean-girl mugged...)
Mean-girl mugged by eww_its_greg October 3, 2023
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