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Genderfriend 

A gender neutral term for a boyfriend, girlfriend, or an enbyfriend. It’s more commonly used for non-binary/genderqueer people, but it can be used for binary people, or to refer to partners of different gender identities.
It can also be used if your partner is genderfluid, demiboy, demigirl, bigender, pangender, omnigender, etc, and you don’t know what to call them at present.
“Are you two genderfriends?” The man asked the pair, as they were holding hands.
(Here this would be referring to two people of different genders.)

“Can you hand this to my genderfriend, Alex? They’re over there, in the green shirt.”
(Here this would be referring to an individual, who is likely non-binary or genderqueer.)

“I honestly think you have terrible taste in significant others. I’ve never liked ANY of your genderfriends.”
(Here this would be referring to someone’s multiple past partners of different genders that the speaker is expressing their dislike for.)

genderfriend 

A gender-free way to address a boyfriend or girlfriend so as not to offend people who are gay, although it is somewhat tongue-in-cheek. Partner, Other Half, My Steady and Bedmate are all better alternatives for gay-friendly ways to signify a steady relationship. The term genderfriend is also useful if you see a couple, one of whose gender is ambiguous.
I am taking my genderfriend to the movies tonight; I hope I can get to third base after sitting through a gender-flick.

Did you see that girl and her, ummmm, genderfriend? Was that an ugly chick or a girly guy?
genderfriend by Bay-gles March 20, 2007

gendertrender 

Someone, typically a female on tumblr, who makes up and claims to be a certain gender in an attempt to feel unique. They may claim to be demiboy/genderfluid/agender/stargender. Gendertrenders will make up genders and claim gender is social construct, while sadly shitting on the trans community by making it look like a joke. These people also seem to contradict themselves on whether or not clothes have a gender, and will demand you refer to them as xe or bunself.
Common tumblr profile of a gendertrender: I'm a sapiosexual-pansexual queer fat femme demigirl . Non-binary. Pronouns are bun/bunself. I have undiagnosed depression and adhd. Ask before follwing-no cis white men!
gendertrender by FriedFrogs March 26, 2016

genderfied 

when heterosexuals move into a previously gay neighborhood
The Castro certainly is getting genderfied.
genderfied by Catherine O'Brien January 5, 2009

gender friend 

A friend, with whom you are having casual, yet emotional sex. Differing from a Fuck buddy in that there is emotion involved in the pairing, usually a combination of jealousy loneliness.
Uninformed Man: Well, I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl who'd be really pissed off if she heard me say that.

Learned Man: You sir, have a gender friend.
gender friend by Spencers Finest January 14, 2008

gender-friend 

pron.; boyfriend or girlfriend; as opposed to saying 'are they boyfriend-girlfriend?' you would say 'are they gender-friends?'
boy: let's go to the movies tonight.
girl: as friends, or as gender-friends?
gender-friend by Leah Leah Bo Peah January 2, 2009
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Witch Bath 

A bath consisting of a variety of slats, oils, soaps or any other added ingredients such as fruits, milks, herbs or any other spices for health or beautifying benifits.
She brought home alot of stuff and took it to the bathroom. She must be taking a witch bath.
Witch Bath by carnieboy30 October 26, 2020
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kinktober 

An excuse for people to write porn with different types of kinks throughout the month of October.

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That chick doesn't write often but when she does, its for Kinktober.
kinktober by Kinkiest July 12, 2018
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proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
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person2: ya he was a proper lad
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The number of years you are still sexually active
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sexspan by Dr Kat April 21, 2022
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